Remember the 13 year old dad?

[Etruscan]

Originally posted by Rijiny
My point isn't that this girl isn't promiscuous when it seems she clearly is, my point is that calling a girl a slut (or an equivalent) does nothing but make the situation worse. Girls like this need help, not judgements.

Calling her promiscuous is still judging her , it just sounds nicer.

[Loigan]

Originally posted by Etruscan

I dont know what the exact stats are for sluthood, but what ever they are I am sure this girl meets them.

3+ sexual partners at 14-15, a baby, an unknown father, and baby daddy drama is a slut in my book. So yes, if I had a daughter, niece, or grandchild that met these hall of fame stats, I'd stamp them as sluts too.

-Etruscan

Exactly. The fact that they are in my family would make no difference, if someone related to me was in this situation then yes their name would definitely go under the category of 'slut' in my mind.

[Aristotle]

Originally posted by Malacasta

Right? Or are all 14 year old girls who have sex without innocence or virtue?

By definition they are without innocence and virtue.

And odds are, sexually active teens are not having sex just once. Sexually active teens that get pregnant are almost definitely doing it more than once. Even very fertile people still generally require more than one roll in the sack to get pregnant.

Furthermore, the same bad judgement, bad upbringing, bad circumstances, or all of the above that lead them to have sex once at that age generally lead them to have sex a lot of times.

So yes, you are being PC in the extreme... again.