I almost hesitated to post something since I'm a girl but I figured I might anyways.

Sad thing is, a lot of what he said was/is right. Being a girl who did pass up the nice guy who probably would have been right for me.. and was probably my biggest regret in life to date. And every guy I dated was, indeed, a huge asshole.

But I do not completely agree with the rest of it, especially the more bitter parts. Nothing is ever really that simple. Sometimes it is more of a case of not wanting to ruin a great friendship, in my case I really did consider him a brother but over time grew more attached to him in other ways. By that time he was dating my best friend who hurt him ultimately. If I could go back in time and snatch him up, I would. He won't even talk to me now.

Some of us really have grown up and really do want a nice guy in their life. I tried to find one and thought I did... but sometimes the nice guys aren't as nice as they pretend to be either.

P.S. And if he is doing all the nice things just to get the girl to put out... well... enough said.