While I agree with and follow the logic of Mala's argument, that argument probably isn't going to convince anybody to change their beliefs. It's good for winning a debate, but not really good for converting people I don't think.

She identifies though one of the main reasons such discussions fall apart. Ultimately, alot of people on this board and in the world in general follow the belief that no matter how much good I do in life, I am doomed for eternity, and I deserve that doom simply because I don't believe the same as they do.

There are several really divisive issues like this between non-theists and the religious. Such discussions are basically a mine field, and the longer such a discussion goes on, the more likely one of them is going to get stepped on.