While I believe there are genuine cases of people who truely are devoted, from some experience here and there I'm convinced to the extreme vast majority of people religion is a moment of convenience.
Just last week I was at a grandfather's funeral. According to our old tradition, the funeral last 3 days and 3 nights non-stop - from Friday night to Monday morning. The continuous work and vigil is excruciating. During the Sunday morning a full 1/3 of the relatives who were there as cooks had to go to church. I've known this for a long time but it is only now that I've actually witness it. A granddaughter said at the table she's considering converting to christianity to avoid so much work.
Our tradition always call on relatives to help/celebrate in marriages, our versions of baptism and exorcism, or just goodwill gathering. The purpose is to keep the family bonds strong. These things usually take up a whole day and requires the participant of many relatives - more relatives coming means less workload. Did I mention the average is one gathering per month throughout the whole extended family clan? One of my sister converted, she doesnt come to any of the gatherings. Their new way is to go to church - where they are constantly nagged to join the membership which means paying collections - they havent joined yet. It is an easier way of life I suppose, replacing time, effort and family closeness with coins - that's the life of growing up in a fast paced world. *sigh*


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