Dal, I didn't know Thai parents were the same as here, but it sounds like they are. Especially with the studying after school thing.
It might be mildly more extreme here (just because they don't like to go outside the country so you HAVE to do well so you can go to a GOOD middle school so you can go to a GOOD High school so you can go to Seoul National University...etc...) (I have 9 year olds worrying about their university..)
Sounds like you got the same exact thing. And I think maybe going to the US was a good thing for you SPECIFICALLY because you could 'slack off' a bit for once in your life. I doubt you did but I just mean it in that.. you got to live a bit? I seriously worry when some of my students will ever get to.. live.. they go from elementary school (6 hours plus 1 or 2 hours after school) to middle school when the studying gets ramped up.. to high school when it gets ramped up some more.. then university.. these kids are isnane. Or their parents are anyway. I got kids sayin' to me they they don't like the vacations because their mother makes them STUDY MORE THAN IN SCHOOL TIME...sick. I think this is the worst country in Asia/the world for stupid obsessions with education though. It's all about test taking too.
You can respect education to a certain extent, and think its great that kids learn some stuff.. but.. when it gets to the kind of level I've seen it at.. I'd almost prefer my kids to be illiterate heh. Some kind of balance is seriously needed. And in the US you're a lot f'in closer than they are out here in Asia. If a kid does better in some dopey ass math quiz in Asia... fuck 'em. Fuck the insane education for the sake of it. No point scoring points on point tests if you end up with a nation of.. well.. Koreans ;) (sorry my chingu!)
-tharun
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Originally posted by Dalaena
There's flaws in systems on both sides of the country.
In Thailand, almost all kids go to school AND get tutored heavily after school. This, however, is usually by THEIR choice because peer pressure demands that you do well in school. There is an intense amount of academic pressure as well as support from parents as well. All teachers in Thailand that teach in public schools basically get a medal of honor from having served their country.
